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Do you ever feel stuck, emotionally drained, or like you’re constantly striving but never “enough”? You’re in the right place! Welcome to A HOLY MESS Podcast (ranked in the top 1% globally🎉), a podcast designed for you if you’re ready to break free and heal from self-doubt, burnout, and overgiving—so you can step into confidence, peace, God’s grace and purpose with clarity. Each week, I share biblical wisdom, mindset shifts, and real conversations to help you: ✨ Overcome self-doubt and fear with faith-based confidence. ✨ Let go of striving and perfectionism and embrace God’s grace. ✨ Set healthy boundaries and stop people-pleasing without guilt. ✨ Heal from burnout, shame, regret, and emotional exhaustion. ✨ Renew your mind with God’s truth and step into your purpose. There’s no magic wand to find more freedom, but there are practical tools that can help. Even as Christians who sometimes feel unworthy and shame about our past, anxious about our future, or feel like we are not enough. There is so much more for us! There’s hope, joy, peace, fun, purpose, and a reason that YOU are on this planet. If you’re ready to rediscover your worth, reconnect with God, and finally feel at peace, you’re in the right place. We can have fun and laugh while trudging through our messes; this stuff doesn’t need to be dry and boring. I can’t wait to journey with you. Your new friend, Dani Learn -> www.danisumner.com Connect -> hello@danisumner.com Facebook -> https://www.facebook.com/DaniSumnerCoaching Instagram -> https://www.instagram.com/danisumner/
Episodes

Saturday Jul 20, 2024
153. Who's in your boat? Lessons from the River
Saturday Jul 20, 2024
Saturday Jul 20, 2024
Life can often feel like a wild river, full of unexpected twists and turns.
Last week, we went on a whitewater rafting adventure. I'm not super adventurous anymore, so it was definitely a stretch.
I'm more hotelsy, than outdoorsy.
And I willingly signed up for this! But I learned so much!
The first thing I learned was-- I will neverrrrr do level 4 rapids again! Seriously, it was a one-and-done experience. haha.
You'll hear about it in today's episode.
However, the experience had a profound impact on my life and taught me so much about navigating life's challenges.
Here's a couple of stories I share about in today's episode:
- Why the people in your "boat" matter more than you think
- How apparent setbacks might be saving you from more painful troubles
Sometimes, it's hard to remember that, just like on the river, life's turbulent waters aren't a curse—they're an opportunity for growth and transformation.
If you have the right people by your side and a willingness to lean into the journey, you can navigate any rapid path that comes your way. I mean it...
Sending you so much love,
Dani
P.S. If this episode resonates with you, please share it with a friend who might need some encouragement today. Together, we're creating a community of support and growth! By the way--the podcast just hit 200k downloads! Thank you for your continued support and love. I'm so grateful for you and the community we're building together.
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Wednesday Jul 03, 2024
Wednesday Jul 03, 2024
If you memorize one prayer all year, let it be this one!
This simple yet profound prayer has saved me from myself and my struggles more than I can count.
I hope this short episode blesses you!
You are not alone, and I'm cheering for you.
The Serenity Prayer:
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference. Amen."
Much love,
Dani
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Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
151. Unlocking Relationship Healing: Healing from the Inside Out
Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Wednesday Jun 26, 2024
Today, we're diving deep into something that's been heavy on my heart—those complicated, often painful relationships in our lives.
You know, the ones I'm talking about—the ones that ache deep within you and keep you up at night. Our nearest and dearest struggles either with our spouses, children, parents, siblings, churches or even colleagues- can leave us feeling lost, overwhelmed, and desperate for answers or even an escape hatch at times.
I've been there, friends. Oh, have I been there. And I know how crippling it can feel.
But here's the beautiful truth I've discovered on this journey: the relationship we need to heal most is often with ourselves.
I know it might sound counterintuitive and maybe even a little selfish, but stick with me here because this is where the magic happens.
In this episode, we're exploring what I like to call the "magic sauce" of relational healing:
- Why healing your relationship with yourself is the key to unlocking clarity and wisdom with how to deal with all other relationships
- How our relationship with ourselves profoundly impacts every area of our lives
- A special 7-day mirror exercise that might feel uncomfortable at first, but could change everything
- The spiritual perspective on self-love and soul care and its critical importance in our walk with God
Takeaway quote: "As we heal our relationship with ourselves, I'm telling you, other relationships around us are healed. And as we find boundaries, we find clarity."
Verse mentioned: Jeremiah 1:5 "I knew you before I formed you in your mother's womb. Before you were born, I set you apart."
Song mentioned: "God Only Knows" by King & Country
If you're ready to go deeper in this healing journey, learn more about the Feel Better Journey coaching program at www.danisumner.com/thefeelbetterjourney
With love and gratitude,
Dani
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Thursday Jun 20, 2024
150. Wired To Be Sought After: The Primal Dance of Human Existence
Thursday Jun 20, 2024
Thursday Jun 20, 2024
Hi friend!
I'm sharing a short story, verse, quote, and song in today's short episode.
I hope it blesses you!
Remember, no matter how lonely you feel, you're not alone.
Quote: "We are all born into this world looking for someone looking for us." --Psychiatrist Curt Thompson, read that again. 👆🏽
Song: I am not alone by Kari Job iTunes // YouTube // Spotify
Verse: Romans 8:38-39 "For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord"
Glad you're here,
Dani
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✅ 🎉 Dani's Coaching program--"The Feel Better Journey."
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Keywords:
Divine pursuit, God's love, Spiritual healing, Grace, Christian Inner healing, Jesus' compassion, Scripture (Romans 8:38-39), Prayer, Faith, God's presence ,Spiritual journey, Redemption, God's faithfulness, Christian community, Spiritual growth, God's unconditional love, Overcoming doubt, Christian encouragement, Spiritual connection, God's mercy

Sunday Jun 16, 2024
149. The Truth About Happiness: It Comes with a Side of Sadness
Sunday Jun 16, 2024
Sunday Jun 16, 2024
Hey friends,
Get ready to dive into the messy, beautiful reality of being human with Therapist Jim Beebe. Jim's such a gift to our community!
We're talking about the loneliness and incompleteness so many of us feel, and guess what? It's not just you, and it doesn't mean you're failing at life or doing anything wrong!
I know in some Christian circles, feeling sad or anxious can make you feel like you're not praying hard enough or that God's giving you the cold shoulder. And that can add another layer of shame to our struggles. Ugh.
But those feelings are part of the human package.
Jim also reminds us that even the best marriages and relationships can't erase human loneliness, but embracing it as part of our journey leads to depth, wisdom, and wholeness. Sadness can even be the doorway to true joy—crazy, right? But oh, so true.
If you've ever felt like something's missing or beaten yourself up for not being happy enough, this episode is a big ol' hug and fresh perspective. True happiness is about dancing with all of life's experiences with acceptance and grace.
Enjoy Jim's refreshing perspective and wisdom that comes from working as a Therapist for over 40 years. :)
Sending so much love to you, and I'm glad you're here!
Dani
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✅ 🎉Dani's Coaching program--"The Feel Better Journey."
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Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
148. If You're Going Through Hell, Keep Going
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Wednesday Jun 12, 2024
Hi friend!
Life is full of ups and downs. And I'm feeling all the feelings and emotions that come along with the rollercoaster. :)
In today's episode, I'm sharing a bit of what I've been wrestling through lately and some encouragement--if you're wrestling through a part of your life or this season of life--I hope you're encouraged!
References:
Quote- "If you're going through hell, keep going."-Winston Churchill
Verse- Romans 5:3-5
Song- "There was Jesus" by Zach Williams and Dolly Parton iTunes // YouTube // Spotify
xo🧡,
Dani
🌟To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com
✅ 🎉Dani's Coaching program--"The Feel Better Journey."
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Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
Wednesday Jun 05, 2024
In today's episode, I share a personal struggle we're going through that's teaching me a ton about life. In this short encouragement episode, I also share a quote, a verse, and a song.
I hope it encourages you!
Quote: "Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be."-- Thomas a Kempis
Song: Shine Your Way iTunes // YouTube // Spotify
Verse: Philippians 1:6, "He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ."
"This too shall pass. It may pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass!"-Dani :)
Enjoy!
Dani
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✅ 🎉Dani's Coaching program--"The Feel Better Journey."
🙏🏽Want one-on-one coaching or to get in touch? Contact Us At—> hello@danisumner.com
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Sunday Jun 02, 2024
Sunday Jun 02, 2024
“Our greatest strengths can also be our deepest vulnerabilities.”-Dani
In today’s episode, I’m sharing two tools to help build self-confidence.
One of the tools I share about is a practical exercise that you can incorporate into your daily routine. By practicing this tool, you will boost your self-confidence and gain valuable insights about yourself. It feels awkward at first, but it's so worth the effort to push through the awkwardness to reap the benefits.
Enjoy today’s episode!
Love you,
Dani
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✅ 🎉Dani's Coaching program--"The Feel Better Journey."
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Wednesday May 29, 2024
Wednesday May 29, 2024
Are you struggling with regret, shame, or feeling like you've missed out on the life you were supposed to have? Well then, you're in for a treat today!
My counselor, Jim Beebe, is with us, AND holy moly, do we dive deep today!
Jim's amazing, and you're going to love him.
We're diving deep into the human experience of the "shoulda, coulda, woulda," and Jim offers profound insights on finding healing and peace. And most importantly, he shares practical steps that can help offload some regret and shame.
I'm telling you, what he shares works.
Jim's wisdom could be the key you've been searching for, potentially saving you from years of struggle and even thousands in therapy. You're welcome. ;)
His insights are so helpful and practical.
Remember, wherever you are in the process, you're not alone, and there's HOPE.
If you're ready to stop beating yourself up, paying the "pain tax," and start moving towards freedom - this episode is for you.
Grateful you're here.
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Enjoy today's episode,
Dani
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✅ 🎉Dani's Coaching program--"The Feel Better Journey."
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Sunday May 26, 2024
Sunday May 26, 2024
Hi friend,
I'm reminded how much the harm the hard things we've walked through in this life affect us. They leave their mark on us at times, so to speak... So, if you're walking "through it," I'm sorry for the pain... but keep walking... you will get through this.
You've survived all of your worst days so far. ;)
Glad you're here, and I hope today's episode encourages you.
If you need prayer, email me at hello@danisumner.com
Also, in today's episode, I mentioned a survey--if you'd like to participate, that would be amazing. I love hearing from those who listen to the show. Here's the link.
Here's the song, quote, and verse I mention:
Quote:
"you will never outperform your own self-image."
Verse:
Isaiah 40:26 "Lift up your eyes and look to the heavens: Who created all these? He who brings out the starry host one by one and calls forth each of them by name. Because of his great power and mighty strength, not one of them is missing."
Song:
"Another in the fire" Hillsong United iTunes // Youtube // Spotify
Glad you're here.
Much love,
Dani
🌟To learn more about Dani -> www.danisumner.com
✅ 🎉Dani's Coaching program--"The Feel Better Journey."
🙏🏽Want to get in touch? Contact Us At—> hello@danisumner.com
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